We were on our way home from the airport. I’ve been in Washington, D.C., working on a pretty incredible project that will decrease the digital divide in Nepal, increase literacy, and improve education. It has been a very exciting trip and I was fired up. If I had to rate this entire week, I would give it a 10+. My flight arrived on time and I was excited to see my husband and three of my grandchildren. We would drive home with Sirius 78 on the radio, Kids Place Live. There was a lot of laughing and a lot of fun, until a surprising trigger came on the radio.
About a month before Carly died, we took her to Disney World. I ran a 5K on Friday, a 10K on Saturday, and a 1/2 marathon on Sunday. It was Disney’s Glass Slipper Challenge. The icing on the cake was being able to take Carly with us. We rode lots of rides and she was captivated by “It’s a Small World.” That particular ride is one of my favorites, as I rode it when it was premiered at the New York World’s Fair. I think that was 1964, and I had never seen anything like it. I have always loved that particular ride. On February 21, the line for “It’s a Small World” was short and Carly was as excited as I was. She was captivated by the animation and the voices and the many wonderful characters. As the dolls sang and moved up and down, Carly was transfixed. The photo was taken on the ride. Such precious and wonderful memories!
I’ve done well, I think, with the pain of losing our precious granddaughter. But today, when “It’s a Small World” came on the radio, I lost it. Carly’s brothers and sister were in the car but the tears came, anyway. I couldn’t stop. The memories of the fun blended with the extreme sadness and the result was an extreme pain.
When I got myself together, I apologized to our grandsons. I’m not sure they’ve seen me cry since the funeral. James, who is 10, very wisely said, “It’s okay. I understand.” The sad thing is that yes, he does understand.
You never know when the pain of a loss is going to hit you, and you never know when it will grab you so hard it will take your breath away. Today was my day. Sometimes you just have to ride it out.